Shelf Life: Fall 2014


These are some of my most favorite posts to write. Nowhere else can I wax rhapsodic about the little bound treasures that make me so very happy. Though after a summer of two 700+-page tomes that made my arms ache, my Fall reading fell a little short. I blame the dawn of my FitBit, who stole away my lunch hours for long walks instead of long reading breaks. I also blame the library, who provided ALL of the books on this list, making me feel like a constant state of limbo. I didn’t want to pick up a book on my nightstand when a new one from the library would come in a few days and I’d be on the clock to finish it.

Book nerd problems.

We’ve also had a house full of visitors over the last month, surprises and planned, so I haven’t been “with book” like I normally am. Excuses aside, let’s talk about my favorite time of year in Utah. This was our view from the University just last weekend. I really think October is the best month for the mountains.


This has been a weird fall for us. We had a few cold snaps in September that left the leaves just as confused as us. Especially when we’ve had a record-warm October with highs in the 70s most days. In fact, today will be beautiful and warm and snow and temps in the 20s are predicted for Sunday. Just madness and lots of sniffly sinuses.

Before we bid adieu to Fall, take a look at some of the gorgeousness that is Cache Valley.


Doesn’t it look like I used some kind of select color photoshop trick on this? I didn’t, but I like the look.

It’s hard to beat the leaves for me, but the Fall skies have been absolutely breathtaking. I’m almost…ALMOST!…sad to set the clocks back this weekend and lose these views on my morning commute.


And because it’s today, and—yes—I already have Christmas songs in my head, I’ll leave you with this before we hit the books.

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Happy Halloween from your resident stinker, sucker, and Princess.

1. The Vacationers, Emma Straub

I totally get sucked into the “Books of the Summer” lists each year. They are typically easy reads, something that pairs well with sand and salt water, but just as well with mountains and couches. This was one of this summer’s picks and it stayed true to my stereotype. Nothing groundbreaking. Just a funny story about a dysfunctional family’s vacation in Italy. Como si dice “spot on”?

2. The Nesting Place, Myquillyn Smith

Weird author name aside, this was an excellent reminder about loving the place you call home, whether you rent, own, or are looking to buy. She walks you through each of her houses and gives tips on how you can make a place your own, how to embrace your mess, and how a home can work for your family’s needs. A few take-aways:

“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.” — Epicurus

“Are you waiting on your next house? The house that will be better and newer and bigger, the house you will make into a beautiful home? Oh, the burden the next house carries, where all the living and enjoying and creating will happen. If only. Just remember: compared with your last house, this IS your next house.”

USE YOUR GOOD STUFF! (I’m guilty of this. What am I saving it for?!)

3. Big Little Lies, Liane Moriarty

Last summer, Liane wrote one of the best-selling books—a #1 New York Times bestseller—called The Husband’s Secret (see below). While on the wait list for that at the library, I managed to lead the list for her 2014 summer release. I instantly loved her writing and stayed up way too late most nights because I just couldn’t put it down. The material is unsettling, especially so for any parental types. It deals with bullying, single-parenting, domestic violence, infidelity, helicopter parents, mommy wars, etc. etc. etc. Heavy subject matter for sure, but written in a way that bordered both humor and empathy. A narrow path that Moriarty treads perfectly. I can’t wait to read her other novels and I highly recommend this one.

4. The Silkworm, Robert Galbraith

J.K. ‘strikes’ again! This is her second Cormoran Strike novel, a series she recently announced will include more books than her Harry Potter series. Cormoran is a great character, so I don’t mind. This one took me a while to get into, but I blame my late-night, sleepy reading than the actual plot. Once I got into it, I didn’t want to put it down, which explains why I hastily read the last few pages at my desk early one morning than saving it for my lunch break. I felt like I had hit pause on the most exciting part of the book–waiting five hours just wasn’t going to happen for 10 pages! Ah, the power of Ms. Rowling.

5. The Invention of Wings, Sue Monk Kidd

From the power of J.K. Rowling to the power of Oprah, this book literally had wings the second she endorsed it for her book club. I typically don’t buy into her hype as a rule, but so many of my friends were blasting out their love of this book that I couldn’t stay away. And I’m glad I didn’t.

Its story follows the Grimké sisters—real-life abolitionist legends from South Carolina. Though very real, Sue’s account is largely fictional and chronicles their time as children through their later lives. You know I love those kinds of stories. It’s a dual coming-of-age tale of one of the sisters (Sarah) and the slave that was given to her as a birthday present, and how their bond and a promise keeps pulling them together. This is beautiful writing for an even more beautiful story. Don’t let Oprah’s seal on the cover throw you off.

6. The Husband’s Secret, Liane Moriarty

This was the Summer 2013 hit that I finally got from the library wait list. After reading two of Liane’s books in a short amount of time, I realized that I take for granted that most of the books I read are written by American authors. Both stories are set in Liane’s native Australia, so getting used to their summer vacations over the Christmas break took a little rewiring on my part. But, for the book itself, it didn’t disappoint. It’s a heavy book disguised as a summer chick-flick, something magazines and newspapers mentioned quite a bit due to its frilly cover art. It chronicles the lives of three families all forever changed by one person’s decision decades ago. It really makes you wonder about the small choices/decisions we make every day without worrying about who they might affect, even years later. “The choices you make dictate the life you lead.” Choose wisely.

7. Not That Kind of Girl, Lena Dunham

I’ve never seen an episode of Girls, but I do know Lena Dunham is loved by women of my generation for her feminist ideals and her sassy screw-you attitude. She exudes confidence, something lacking in so many young women, and is a younger voice to balance those of Tina Fey, Mindy Kaling, and Amy Poehler. I had no idea what to expect from her book, but I was pleasantly surprised in every page. Sure, she’s snarky and crude and has had WAY too much casual sex, but she’s also incredibly insightful and touching. She perfectly captures what it’s like to be a confused, hurt, yet resilient 20-something. ….Maybe I should give her show a try.

A favorite passage on dating the wrong guy:

When someone shows you how little you mean to them and you keep coming back for more, before you know it you start to mean less to yourself. Being treated like shit is not an amusing game…It’s something you accept, condone, and learn to believe you deserve. This is so simple. But I tried so hard to make it complicated.

Smart girl.

Next up in the overly-ambitious queue:

The Paying Guests – Sarah Waters (currently reading)
The Goldfinch
 – Donna Tartt
A Dance with Dragons – George R. R. Martin (this is a MUST before the next season starts!)
Freedom – Jonathan Franzen
Frankenstein – Mary Shelley
Running to Normal – Sandra Clark
Orange is the New Black – Piper Kerman
Food: A Love Story – Jim Gaffigan
Yes Please – Amy Poehler
Us – David Nicholls
Belzhar – Meg Wolitzer

# homecoming 2014

Man, do I get behind with these posts! Let’s rewind things back to almost THREE weeks ago. *hanging head in shame*

Just like last year, my mom and Mike made the trek to Logan for Homecoming. This is turning out to be a really fun tradition. You’d think they were USU grads themselves, the way they embrace all the chaos and excitement.

Homecoming weekend for us is always a busy one. There’s the parade, the game, the events and this year….a concert. The night before the game Joe and I played a concert dedicated to the 75th anniversary of The Wizard of Oz. It was mostly a family concert, so lots of kids dressed as Elsa and Darth Vadar, but it was a fun time and I’m glad it gave my mom an opportunity to wear her infamous Concert Sweater.

She’s worn this sweater to every concert of mine for the last 18 years. Isn’t that incredible? It makes me laugh and we always joke about it, but really I find it very touching and sentimental. She knows that’s my jam.

The next day started early with the parade. Sorry for blinding you guys!

Another gorgeous day, just like last year. The band led the way:


We stood on the last block of the parade, so we saw a lot of tired performances from the kids, but here are some highlights from those still giving it their all:


Those crazy gymnasts doing flips and trampoline work were back. I swear, there are broken necks just waiting to happen here. MOVING vehicles, people! MOVING!

This dance team was especially fun:


I caught her at a weird moment. Speaking of weird, this guy was great. The kids were totally perplexed.

I can’t tell you how much I love that kid’s face in the background. hahahhahahah

I was also a big fan of the reindeer:

Oh, hey there Cowboy…

Here are a few of the international students I work with at the school:

Last, but not least, your future Aggie:

The game was a late one…kick-off at 8:15 Mountain Time…which is just plain crazy. We managed to stay up and enjoy the game, keeping each other warm:

Decked out in our gear. This was before the coats came out.

The band’s show was the music of Daft Punk — loooooved it. (The first two shots are from pre-game.)

Mom and Mike, thank you for coming to visit us! We love having you here. You put the Home in Homecoming. (#awww)

Friday Five: Another Surprise!

Every Friday I’ll indulge my order-crazed brain in a list of randomness. Welcome to my Friday Fives.

Have I missed a Friday Five yet? I can’t remember. It certainly didn’t slip my mind. I was talking about it all yesterday — “what should I write about? someone give me a theme!,” but things got crazy and I crashed in bed without flossing, so you know that means I was tired. For shame!

But, I have the best of excuses. On Thursday my Dad was coming to visit and as I met him before I left work it was the surprise of surprises to see Bryan and Robbi with him. A wonderful surprise since we hadn’t seen them since their big day. I can’t wait to write about what we’ve been doing, but until then, here’s what you can expect to do if you show up at our door unannounced:

5. 10 minutes of hugs, including the elusive dead-weight variety.

4. A meal at Herm’s that includes ALL THE THINGS.

3. Post-Herms hiking that will leave you winded and sore.

2. Fly-fishing on the Logan River.

1. Aggie football. (Aggies are Aggies, right Robbi?)

Sorry for the teaser, but that’s all I got for now! Pics of all of our recent visitors will be up this week.

# football 2014

We’re halfway through USU’s home games for the season and I haven’t written one word about it! It’s either a massive miracle or a massive failure. The hoards of photos have sat untouched on my computer…until now.

Here are some highlights from the first two games. (Homecoming will get its own post soon.)

First game: USU v. Idaho State


I forgot how gorgeous the stadium views are from the top. I sat near the press box, waiting for pre-game to start while soaking up the beautiful sunshine and mountains. Click on the pic to see its full glory.

Everyone was elated to have our star quarterback, Chuckie Keeton, back on the field after being injured last year. This poster said it all.


Sitting near the band has its action-shot perks:


I took this picture because the night before the game Joe and I watched “Dear Mr. Watterson” and relived our childhood obsession with Calvin and Hobbes. Seeing this kid reading it rather than (mostly) watching the game made my day.


The Scotsman!


First game’s half-time show: Music from Harry Potter (hence the scar below), Game of Thrones, and Gladiator


The second game: USU v. Wakeforest

Here’s lookin’ at you, Big Blue.


The team was led out onto the field by USU’s youngest fans. So hilarious to watch.



Did I mention it was a White-Out game and I wore black? Yeah.


And I sat in the student section and had to stand the entire game? Where’s my Old Lady Card?


Coaches and their funny business:


Second game’s half-time show: Music by Macklemore


Performing with the Aggiettes:


When we were at CCM, we had to perform in these “distraction classes” to test our focus. I consider this Joe’s new distraction class:


Funny side story: Joe was always a champ at those classes, but guess who got him to break?…. Me…with a blood-curling scream during his quiet excerpt. It was epic.

GoPro is not just for zip-lining it seems:


Friday Five: Cookbook Invasion

Every Friday I’ll indulge my order-crazed brain in a list of randomness. Welcome to my Friday Fives.

You know how I can go on and on about books? Well, I can talk even more about cookbooks.

Lucky you, right?

I have a serious obsession that stems from my childhood. It really deserves its own post that will undoubtedly start with:

Hi. I’m Marci. And I’m a cookbook-aholic.

After moving so many times I’ve stopped buying books and become a library whore. The only exceptions to the rule are cookbooks. I need them. I want to mark-up their glossy pages with dates, notes, suggestions and splatters of sauce and butter spots. I want to dog-ear pages and wear down the dust jacket. I need to live in those books. Flipping through their pages gives me such a tangible joy that Pinterest’s convenience can’t match.

Remember how I turned down a book club with friends? I have a dream of starting a Cookbook Book Club, where we pick one cookbook a month and everyone makes different recipes for a big pot-luck meal. Our own Moveable Feast. Who’s with me?

There’s nothing better to me than curling up on the couch with a pile of cookbooks, menu planning and dreaming with my mouth watering and my ideas spinning. When I first get a new cookbook I immediately plow through every page, creating a roadmap and planning my attack.

I have acquired five…FIVE…new cookbooks in the last month. It’s a new record. (Think my friends and family know the way to my birthday-girl heart?!) I wanted to share with you the top-five-recipes-I-can’t-wait-to-make for each book. It’s a special Friday Five-by-Five!

Prepare to salivate in 3…2…

5. Joy the Baker

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Even though my favorite design bloggers have called it quits, my favorite food bloggers are kill-ing it right now. Almost all of them have released a cookbook in the last year, which makes me one happy girl. Joy and her blog are at the top of that list. This is her first cookbook (from 2012), but it’s full of awesome tips and basics (like how to make the perfect cup of hot chocolate). Her writing is down-to-earth and sarcastic, so basically she’s my foodie-soulmate.

Recipes I need to try:
Black Pepper Waffles – breakfast for dinner just got elevated! (I’d top with eggs and dill hollandaise sauce – WHAT?)
Sweet Potato Pie – how her baking obsession all began. It’s her favorite recipe and comes from her dad.
Baked Chili Cheese Fries – god, yes
Peanut Butter Birthday Cake – glorious
Strawberry Cookie Dough Ice Cream – dreamy

4. Homemade Decadence

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Joy’s second cookbook just came out this week! It’s even more amazing than the first. Her photos are gorgeous and the recipes look incredible. Here’s hoping she makes a book tour stop in Utah.

Recipes I need to try:
Breakfast Nachos – shut the front door
Oatmeal Cookie Sandwiches with Peanut Butter Filling – calling my name
Peach, Brie, and Dark Chocolate S’mores – a s’more Joe and I can both get behind
Confetti Cookies — a party in your mouth
Ice Cream Social – an entire section on fun flavors and toppings, yes!

3. Seriously Delish

How Sweet Eats

Another food blogger! This one I’ve also been following for years. Hers is the only cookbook on this list that isn’t strictly a dessert cookbook. Yes, I love to bake, but it can sometimes seem impractical for me to own a cookbook that’s 85% meat recipes. So that’s why I lean towards the sweeter side when it comes to cookbooks. But this collection is fantastically full of non-meat dishes, or dishes that are easily adaptable for a vegetarian lifestyle. Bonus: It also has an incredible drink section.

Recipes I need to try:
BBQ Roasted Chickpeas – wowza
Oatmeal Cookie Granola – Joe would love this
Breakfast Cookies – sustenance on the go
Roasted Blueberry Basil Brie – I want all the brie things
Roasted Vegetable Queso Frittata – this is happening soon

2. Sally’s Baking Addiction

Sallys Baking Addiction

Yep, you guessed it, another blogger! Sally is a pinterest sensation, mostly for her ridiculous flavors of Puppy Chow, like pumpkin spice, butterscotch peanut butter, cookies-n-cream, cupcake, red velvet, s’mores, and on and on and on. She is a true recipe developer, so everything she makes is spot-on. There’s no guess work, which is invaluable to home bakers like myself.

Recipes I need to try:
Pumpkin Chocolate Chip Bread – busted! I made this this week and it was superb. It definitely rivals my favorite muffin recipe. I blame the orange juice in the batter.
Cinnamon Roll Blondies – gah!
Cake Batter Chocolate Chip Cookies – the recipe she claims made her famous (shown on the cover)
Monster Munch – a new binge-watching TV snack?
Butterscotch Streusel Banana Bread – is it dessert? is it breakfast? does it matter?

1. Baked Occasions

Baked Occasions

I recently waxed rhapsodic about my love for the Baked Boys’ cookbooks. Their Oopsy Daisy Cake was the perfect birthday treat. This is their fourth cookbook and it’s for a year of celebrations. Each recipe is themed with a particular landmark date or holiday. So fun and the recipes are what you’d expect from them: perfection. In the words of my wise friend William…”Every day’s a holiday.” It certainly is with this book.

Recipes I need to try:
Texas Sheet Cake with Peanut Butter Frosting – my Texas roots marry my Peanut Butter heart
Pink Peppermint Ice Cream with Hot Fudge – droooooooling for the holidays
Hippie Cake – vegan cake with olive oil and balsamic vinegar (I’d use THIS balsamic vinegar!)
Chocolate Pop Tarts with Peanut Butter Filling – put the box down and walk away
Orange Pancakes with Honey Butter – honey hush!

And here are more cookbooks I’m already eyeing (Can’t stop, won’t stop!):

Aarti Paarti: An American Kitchen with an Indian Soul – Love me some Indian Food! I want to make and eat all of the paneer tikka masala and naan, please! Bonus: Learning all about Indian spices.

Brunch at Bobby’s – I think I just want to have brunch at Bobby’s. You understand, I’m sure.

Huckleberry – LA’s famous brunch spot and bakery divulges its favorites. Gorgeous, but not sure how much I’d actually cook from its pages. Unless I wanted to learn how to make my own (high-altitude) bagels. ….tempting.

Dominique Ansel – The master behind the famous/infamous Cronut shares his secrets? Maybe not to own, but definitely would love to browse.

And, in upcoming Friday Five lists: Favorite Exercises at the Gym! How to not bake anything for more than five days! Kale Chips and Other Meals!

# a year later


A year ago today I said goodbye to my Pops. In many ways it was my first goodbye–my first brush with death. I didn’t know how I should or would feel at the time, but I knew it was a game changer. 365 days later, I’m still not sure how I’m supposed to feel. Everyone deals with it in their own way, which can also be hard. There’s no Death for Dummies handbook.

As I sit here watching baseball, I realize there are so many things that make me think of and wish for him. But if there’s anything I’ve taken away from the last year it’s a feeling of utter thankfulness. To have had the time we had, to have been able to say all of our goodbyes, to have been there to let him go. What a gift. Most people are not that lucky.

So on my walk today I looked up to the beautiful sky and thanked Pops. For this year of strength and learning, and 32 wonderful years of love.

“I love you every day. And now I will miss you every day.” ~Albom

“The anniversary date of a loved one’s death is particularly significant. You will have done something you thought was impossible a few months earlier. You will have survived an entire year without someone who was as important to you as life itself.” ~Diets